As I settled into my armchair with a steaming cup of tea, I thought back to the time I almost lost my heart—and a small fortune—to a smooth-talking scam artist. It all began innocently enough when I joined a dating site after my children encouraged me to put myself out there again. That’s when I met David. With his charming smile and heartfelt messages, he made me feel seen and cherished. We talked for hours about everything—from our favorite books to our dreams of traveling the world. I felt like a teenager again, butterflies in my stomach as we planned our future together.But soon, the conversation took a troubling turn. David claimed he was stuck overseas due to a sudden medical emergency and needed money to pay for treatment. My heart ached for him, and against my better judgment, I sent him several wire transfers, believing I was helping the love of my life. Weeks passed, and suddenly, the sweet messages turned into silence. It dawned on me that I had been scammed. Just as I was drowning in despair, I heard about a group called Specter Lynx. I reached out, sharing my story with them. They sprang into action, tracking down David’s digital trail and uncovering the web of deceit. With their help, I was able to recover a significant portion of my lost funds. Now, I not only have my money back, but I also have a newfound appreciation for caution—and the strength of community. I often share my story, reminding others that love online can be a double-edged sword, but with a little vigilance, you can find your way back.

Hello There.I really like a girl which we spent time together on a college trip(I'm 30s) and realised that I  have feelings for her which has come out of nowhere and its causing me a heartache and feeling sick.She initiated contact first via WhatsApp,we went spontaneously to shops together,went swimming,she shows interest by touching,smoothing my arm sunburn.she use to text and call nearly every other day randomly to catch up.Iong story short..I asked her if she would like to meet up in 1 week to 2 weeks,she said we can plan that via text and blushed before.She texts every 5 days and now it's been a week.So last week I text her asking if she would like to meet up,she said she is busy(she works more now) and studies,but said I'm sure we can plan something in the summer time.I replied after showing interest and said let me know when you are free..she replied,yes of course! The last time we spoke was 1 week.I understand we are not in a relationship but what should i do? Should i just wait for her to text when shes free? No matter how long it takes her to get back? I'm worrying and wondering if she really Is interested. She sits next to me,use to ask me to hold her food,wanted me to come eigh her in a taxi,her friend asked if I have children,obviously plays with her hair,she randomly went swimmimg both of us in the spare moment.. asked about if her dress looks nice etc.. I'm looking pick her up to take her to a cafe then maybe a walk or something to eat then the 2nd time to dinner and if she asks,is this a date,I will say yes,this can be. In person I did say first time..as said above swimming and dinner which was my first move. Thankyou very much,I appreciate all answers and advice?