What to tell a gal when she says refrain from calling me darling?

It's important to respect her boundaries and wishes. You can respond by saying something like, "I understand and I will make sure to respect your wishes. Let me know if there's anything else you'd prefer me to call you."

Emphasize Understanding and Respect:

- "I understand your preference, and I will respect your wishes. I won't call you 'darling' anymore."

Offer Alternative Terms of Endearment (if appropriate):

- "Would you prefer me to call you by your name, [insert name here]?"
- "Is there any other term of endearment you're more comfortable with?"

Explain Your Intention (Optional):

- "I've noticed that some people find 'darling' to be patronizing or condescending. I want to make sure I'm not making you feel uncomfortable."

Set Boundaries:

- "I'll refrain from using the term 'darling,' but please let me know if anything else makes you uncomfortable."

Apologize (if you accidentally called her "darling" after her request):

- "My apologies for calling you 'darling' just now. I'm still adjusting, but I'll be more mindful from now on."

Additional Tips:

- Use a calm and respectful tone of voice.
- Be sincere and show that you care about her feelings.
- If she doesn't want any terms of endearment, accept it graciously.
- Respect her decision even if you don't agree with it.