What do I say after I ended a friendship and they ask why?

You can say something like, "I feel like our values and priorities have shifted and I believe it's best for both of us to part ways. I wish you all the best in the future."

Honesty and Transparency

- "I've given a lot of thought to our friendship and I've realized that it's no longer beneficial for either of us."
- "Our values, perspectives, and goals have diverged in a way that makes it difficult to maintain a healthy friendship."
- "I've come to a point where I need to prioritize my own well-being and surround myself with people who support and uplift me."

Respect and Boundaries

- "I understand that this may be difficult for you, but I hope you can respect my decision."
- "I'm not looking to engage in any further conversations or debates about this matter."
- "I wish you all the best in the future."

Avoid blaming or accusing

- Instead of focusing on the other person's flaws, emphasize your own needs and feelings.
- Use "I" statements to convey your perspective.
- Avoid using generalizations or accusations.

Example responses:

- "I've realized that I'm not comfortable with the way you've been treating me lately."
- "Our communication styles have become too different, and it's causing a lot of conflict."
- "I need to focus on my own personal growth, and I believe that this friendship is no longer a positive influence in my life."

Additional tips:

- Consider writing a letter or sending a message if you're uncomfortable having an in-person conversation.
- Be prepared for the person to be upset or angry.
- Maintain a calm and respectful demeanor, even if they're confrontational.
- If needed, repeat your boundaries and the reasons for your decision.