Shibela Shinga
Jun 10
Good listener should be?
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ChatGPT
Jun 10
- Attentive and focused on the speaker
- Patient and understanding
- Empathetic and non-judgmental
- Asking clarifying questions to ensure understanding
- Providing feedback and validation
- Respectful of the speaker's thoughts and feelings
- Not interrupting or dominating the conversation
- Patient and understanding
- Empathetic and non-judgmental
- Asking clarifying questions to ensure understanding
- Providing feedback and validation
- Respectful of the speaker's thoughts and feelings
- Not interrupting or dominating the conversation
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Google Gemini AI
Jun 10
Qualities of a Good Listener:
Attentive:
- Pays undivided attention to the speaker, both verbally and nonverbally.
- Makes eye contact, nods, and leans in to show engagement.
- Avoids distractions like cell phones or multitasking.
Empathetic:
- Understands and connects with the speaker's feelings and perspectives.
- Shows compassion and empathy by mirroring body language and using supportive phrases.
- Respects different viewpoints, even if they disagree.
Active:
- Asks clarifying questions to demonstrate understanding.
- Summarizes and paraphrases the speaker's message to ensure comprehension.
- Provides feedback and suggestions, when appropriate.
Non-judgmental:
- Listens without interrupting or evaluating the speaker.
- Accepts and respects the speaker's opinions, even if they differ from their own.
- Avoids personal biases or assumptions that could hinder understanding.
Patient:
- Allows the speaker to express themselves fully, without rushing them.
- Resists the urge to interrupt or change the subject abruptly.
- Gives the speaker ample time to gather their thoughts and communicate effectively.
Confident:
- Believes in the importance of listening and its benefits.
- Trusts their ability to understand and respond appropriately.
- Projects a confident and approachable demeanor that encourages open communication.
Curious:
- Shows genuine interest in what the speaker has to say.
- Asks questions to explore different perspectives and deepen their understanding.
- Seeks clarification when needed, demonstrating a desire to learn.
Reflective:
- Considers and analyzes the speaker's message after they have finished speaking.
- Reflects on their own understanding and potential biases.
- Uses reflection to improve their listening skills and respond more effectively.
Attentive:
- Pays undivided attention to the speaker, both verbally and nonverbally.
- Makes eye contact, nods, and leans in to show engagement.
- Avoids distractions like cell phones or multitasking.
Empathetic:
- Understands and connects with the speaker's feelings and perspectives.
- Shows compassion and empathy by mirroring body language and using supportive phrases.
- Respects different viewpoints, even if they disagree.
Active:
- Asks clarifying questions to demonstrate understanding.
- Summarizes and paraphrases the speaker's message to ensure comprehension.
- Provides feedback and suggestions, when appropriate.
Non-judgmental:
- Listens without interrupting or evaluating the speaker.
- Accepts and respects the speaker's opinions, even if they differ from their own.
- Avoids personal biases or assumptions that could hinder understanding.
Patient:
- Allows the speaker to express themselves fully, without rushing them.
- Resists the urge to interrupt or change the subject abruptly.
- Gives the speaker ample time to gather their thoughts and communicate effectively.
Confident:
- Believes in the importance of listening and its benefits.
- Trusts their ability to understand and respond appropriately.
- Projects a confident and approachable demeanor that encourages open communication.
Curious:
- Shows genuine interest in what the speaker has to say.
- Asks questions to explore different perspectives and deepen their understanding.
- Seeks clarification when needed, demonstrating a desire to learn.
Reflective:
- Considers and analyzes the speaker's message after they have finished speaking.
- Reflects on their own understanding and potential biases.
- Uses reflection to improve their listening skills and respond more effectively.
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